Do you struggle in finding enjoyable dates and turning them into fulfilling long-term relationships?

If you are, it could be because you, like most women, don’t understand what men really want… or you assume that men only want one thing: sex.

Figuring out what men want is hard, isn’t it?

It seems like it gets harder every day with all the dating apps and the faulty love advice you get from the internet.

Which is a shame, really, because understanding your date and future partner is a big part of getting into a great relationship.

What DO men want?

I don’t have to guess what men want... I coach men and speak with them regularly.

Successful, kind and authentic men understand and embrace their masculinity and I share that information with my clients so they are prepared and can date more effectively with this knowledge.

Consistently, regardless of age, ethnicity, or career, men want the same things.

So I’m not going to hold it back from you ladies!...

You cared about him…
listened to him…
gave him your all…
But what did he do?
broke his promises…
took you for granted…

and later you find him in the arms of a woman who doesn’t treat him as well as you do.

Sounds familiar?

This is the story of some ladies in our group.

They meet a man they like…
fall for him deeply…
make him their world…

only to be rejected sooner or later in one form or another.

Why?

Because they caught the Nice Girl Syndrome.

The Nice Girl Syndrome is when a lady becomes too nice and self-sacrificial that she loses her value in the eyes of her man.

How does this happen? Is it wrong to be nice?

No, ladies. There is nothing wrong with being nice. But sometimes (and we often don’t know this), we are nice NOT because we genuinely want to be, but because of our insecurities. We are scared that if we don’t do our best for other people, they won’t love or accept us… or they will leave us. So...

I've adapted this post by Richard Branson to make it my own.

Take a moment to read this before bed tonight. You'll be happy you did 
Post your own version so we can see and celebrate the most important things in your life...

"Dear Friends,

You know me as Fiona May and I hear some of you are going through a tough time, and I would like to help you. I want to be open and honest with you, and let you know that happiness isn’t something just afforded to a special few. It can be yours if you take the time to let it grow.

It’s OK to be stressed, scared and sad, I certainly have been throughout my 50 years on earth. I’ve confronted my biggest fears time and time again. I’ve cheated death on many adventures, seen loved ones pass away, been challenged in business, minced my words in front of tough audiences, and had my heart broken and had to find my way through the craziness of a divorce I never thought I'd have!

I know I’m fortunate to live an...

If you do and you can't stop thinking about your ex, read on...

Every minute you spend one minute thinking about him is one minute you are not spending time thinking about yourself and your future. It's crazy and you literally have to growl at yourself and choose a different thought every time your mind goes there.

He's controlling your thoughts because you are allowing him to and whenever you do it, you are getting a payoff. That's why people stay stuck. Your payoff is a reward, and the thought that he may be unhappy, or karma will catch up with him or he'll come back or he's sorry, and suffering is you just wanting to be right and make him wrong.

Whilst you hold onto the judgement you can never be free.

Every time you find yourself thinking about him, STOP yourself by choosing a different thought and focus on something you can do in that minute that will benefit yourself.

You just have to accept the reality of the situation and you don't have to understand it, or get an apology...