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Face Your Separation or Divorce Without Being Triggered By Your Ex

Uncategorized Feb 12, 2021
Why bother spending time trying to be ok with the divorce if it’s not necessary to really move forward?
 
Do you sometimes feel that you are dragging the huge weight of your divorce around with you?
 
Many ladies tell me they feel tired and exhausted...
 
They thought it'd be easier than it is...
 
They often feel like things will get better once the settlement is done...
 
Or the divorce is finalized...
 
Or when their ex leaves them alone...
 
Often just as they are starting to get some normality into their life,
something else happens..,
 
He may get a girlfriend...
 
Or get married...have a baby
 
Or there is a family event...
 
And they feel like it's just another thing for them to have to contend with...
 
All their emotions are reenacted and their brain goes into overdrive....
 
They can't sleep...
 
They are angry and then sad...
 
They worry about their kids...
 
And they just want it all to stop...
 
They are sick of taking one step forward and 3 backwards...
 
Maybe this is you...
 
Do you feel like you don't have much control and wonder when you are going to get a break?
 
It's always great to share when you feel like this but many ladies don't have lifelong girlfriends or someone to confide in like some others do...they can't discuss it with their family or friends as they are sick of hearing about it and just tell you to get over it...
 
I know you've probably tried that... but your mind says one thing and your heart says another...
 
You may feel so lonely and that there is something wrong with you... you may even cry when nobody is around...
 
You wonder what you are missing. Why is it easier for some people and how are they able to be happy and move on... you wonder if they truly are or if it's even possible to heal after divorce.
 
Maybe they were lucky and weren't married to such an AH as you were or they didn't have to put up with what you did...
 
And you start to get more frustrated and think maybe you just need a new man... Yes, that could be the answer....
 
That would make you feel better and keep you busy...
 
So you try online dating... You are super cautious as you've read all the other ladies posts and you are scared...but you kid yourself it can't be that bad...so you try, and you get ghosted, rejected or ignored...
 
Or maybe you look for other ways of keeping yourself busy...yes, that's what you'll do....
 
So you throw yourself into volunteering, gym, yoga, meditation, church, babysitting...
 
But soon you find yourself so busy you are even more exhausted... and your heart still hurts... and the little voice in your head constantly reminds you of the things you don't want to hear...it just never shuts up...
 
If this sounds like you, you aren't alone...
 
Many ladies tell me they feel the same way...
 
Most just don't know what to do...so they either resign themselves to this and give up dreaming about their future, or they rebel and act out, get promiscuous and stop caring or they reject all the things and people they once loved and they feel defeated and feel more alone than ever...
 
You are a good person, you've been a good wife and a good mother but none of that seems to matter now...
 
If this sounds like you, you probably don't know there is something else you could try...
 
It's not something that was taught in your home, or at school, in the workplace or from your friends...
 
It takes effort and a commitment but it leads to you being happy, loving yourself at a soul level, you being free, loving your life and able to attract a beautiful man...
 
Listen ladies, the shortest possible path to reclaim your life back and stop feeling alone is to create a plan that has the tools you need to get you the meaningful and loving life you want.
 
If you want to learn the simple system thousands of ladies have used to get over that huge weight they carry on their shoulders, even after years of trying to make it go... watch our free training, click here and say YES to YOU!
 
Fiona ❤️👍🙏😀
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