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Do You Ghost?

So let me ask you ladies if you meet someone and have a few dates and you are not feeling he's right for you, what do you do?

Do you ghost?

Or do you also just disappear, not answer messages, say nothing, point out their shortcomings or just stop all communication???

Or do you tell him on the first date in person that you don't see any future, or do you ring or text to thank him after the date, or do you see a need to explain the reason why you aren't attracted to him and let him know that he's not for you?

These are just questions worthy of investigation, not a judgement.

Men I coach (as well as women) tell me all the time that they have been ghosted as well, so I know men are not the only ones doing the ghosting…

Sometimes it's a fear from one or either party that comes up… and many people avoid being honest and upfront because they are not confident enough to be able to understand their own feelings, analyse what's really going on, unsure of what they are really...

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Fiona May’s 6 Keys to Happiness and Success

1. Every day be working on yourself and working towards your goals.

Have a daily ritual and spend at least 30 minutes reading to grow your mind as it's one of the most valuable things you can do. Manage your time wisely and fill your mind with positive information. If you are short on time, turn off the TV and read things that are of value, nourishing, substantial and teaches you distinctions.

2. Learn to Act In Spite of Uncertainty.

Every one of these habits is important but this one is especially vital when learning to heal and grow after a loss or divorce. In a world that seems more uncertain every day, many people are afraid to take a risk of any kind. But with uncertainty comes opportunity and certainty is not a feeling, it's a habit that you can create.

Progress comes when you tell yourself the truth, and you're able to feel the uncertainty and take action anyway. Have you heard of the book, “Feel your fear, but do it anyway?” It's a great book as once we conquer...

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Are You Missing Your Ex Or Your Old Life?

Is it your Ex or your life you are missing? Here's why it's normal and why it doesn't mean anything…

Often we hold on to our past as it feels familiar, safe and it's what we know. We block out the not so good parts and often let our mind run amok by holding onto an imaginary story, and represents everything you don't want…

When you are willing to grow past your limiting beliefs and not settle for instant gratification, you’ll bring into your life exactly what you do want!

Process and practice is the only way to daily build your life, and it happens one step at a time. There are definitely things you can do to shorten this process and make it painless. You learn, grow and rest, instead of retreating.

You rest instead of isolating.

You rest instead of pulling back.

You check your mind and train it, so it says, “I need to rest now” and not “this doesn't work, I'm overwhelmed, I'm giving up, I’m going to just be single…

I'd hate to see...

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Don’t Give Up Looking For Love

divorce empowered fear grow heal Apr 30, 2019

Ladies, are you looking for love? I want to encourage you to not give up on it happening for you?

I was once left by my husband. We had a business, loving family and without any discussion or warning, he was gone, just like that.

So I get it! I had to pick myself up just like you probably have had to, shell-shocked and numb, so many unanswered questions, so many why’s…, and sometimes it felt like I’d never be able to move on, heal, forgive and find another man.

But I survived – AND you will as well. My kids missed their Dad…yours probably do as well. They may not say it, they may be hurting and angry, but they miss what they lost, regardless of their age.

Even though I never thought I would, I met another amazing man and life has never been happier, and this is what I want to encourage you to hold onto.

I am very grateful and honour my marriage. We had 30 years of fun, we were best friends, we had an amazing life, worldwide adventures, built a...

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Who’s looking to find the Love of their life after Divorce?

grow heal love Apr 28, 2019

How Would You Like Me to Personally Walk You Through the Exact Process My Clients Used to Find the Love of Their Life After Divorce… Absolutely Free of Charge?

 

Dear Friend,

Let's talk about RESULTS for a second:

Every day, clients of mine get to wake up and realize they are living their dream…

The love of their life is laying next to them…

They feel completely safe, connected and adored…

They attracted conscious men into their lives and are having so much fun, travelling, holidays, and these amazing men not only love and honour them, they have hit it off with their kids and they have become a family…

They tell me they often have to pinch themselves to ensure it’s real….After years of suffering and heartache, and thinking they’d never be happy again, they are so grateful that their lives are complete.

In fact…

Over the last 12 months, so many of my Clients went from feeling completely heartbroken, lost, and unlovable...

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Are You a “Victor” of a Control Freak?

grow heal Apr 21, 2019

Control Freaks usually leave VICTIMS in their wake!

Control freaks are emotional vampires that feed on the innocence and empathy of unconsciously kind-hearted people.

I speak to many women who are kind-hearted and a bit naive and oblivious to the workings and machinations of a control freak…sometimes they marry men who have these tendencies and it causes a lot of suffering. 

Unfortunately, control freaks feel they are entitled to get whatever they desire. They are manipulative in most of their dealings and conversations, always scheming out new ways to obtain what they want from others, with little regard to how their behaviour impacts another person. 

The relationship between the control freak (predator) and their victim is parasitic in nature and often results in a codependent relationship. They love taking but hate giving. Control-freaks are vultures that feed on unwary souls and are of the illusion that the world owes them something. They approach the...

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Is It Normal To Not Be Interested In Men?

divorce grow heal love Apr 14, 2019

I was asked recently if it's normal to not be attracted to or interested in men after your divorce…

This is my answer and I thought you may find it interesting…

After separation, many women find that they are not very interested in even looking at another man.  Initially, they may be heartbroken and when they look around all men they see look unappealing and you may be not attracted to any of them!  That may be pretty nasty and judgemental, but it was a defence mechanism and the way most women keep themselves safe and something they do to protect themselves from being hurt again.  Many rationalize that they could be just as happy on their own and they really don't need a man, so doubted they would ever be in another relationship.

In hindsight, this thinking has proved neither Right and Wrong…but there are consequences for every decision we make. Whilst we may protect ourselves, we need to also ask ourselves what is taking that stand going to cost...

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What Other Say Is None Of Your Business!

divorce grow heal love Apr 07, 2019

Good Morning Beautiful Ladies. Here's a little reminder for you. Always remember you are beautiful, worthy and what others say and do is none of your business.

I know what you've been through as most of the Women here have a similar story, so you are in a safe place and we understand and no one judges.

Life post-separation, divorce or being widowed is a journey and takes a few things to get through it. I know everyone says it just time and you need to learn to love yourself or pray about it, and this is the answers and I agree that they are part of the answer but if it was the total answer, why are so many women continuing to suffer and become so stuck years after they were divorced or widowed?

In my experience, your pain doesn't magically go away unless you make a decision to change your mindset, grow your emotional intelligence and create a new future for yourself.

Our subconscious mind is so powerful and left unchecked, it has the ability to keep feeding you the same thoughts and...

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How Do I Trust A Man With My Heart?

divorce grow heal love Mar 31, 2019

TRUST – It's hard to give and hard to get! 

by Fiona May

Transition & Relationship Coach

The only way to get TRUST is to learn to trust yourself comes first. When you step out confidently and own yourself, nothing anyone can do or say affects you. If you get to a place where you know who you are, and by knowing your strengths and weaknesses you don't allow someone else to define you. Your true essence shines through and you radiate alluring confidence that men are attracted to and find irresistible.

Anyone can get a man, but I think you shouldn't be just looking for any man… you want a magnificent, masculine man who loves and adores you and is your emotional equal.

When you are an emotionally high-value woman you know what you bring to a relationship so you don't settle for anyone who isn't at your same level.

There are emotionally intelligence men who have done their work and are looking for long-term committed relationships. You have to remember that they are...

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What Do Some Women Know That You Don’t?

divorce grow love Mar 24, 2019

Have you ever wondered if there is an easier way to date and find a Magnificent Man? Do you ever wonder what some Women know and you don't? How do they find amazing men whilst you seem to be stuck and either too scared to date or just keep meeting duds? If this sounds like you, it's because you probably haven't made these 3 decisions. I hope you'll get some value from this post. Fiona May 

THE 3 DECISIONS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

There’s nothing worse to me than Women who are suffering, sad, frustrated, angry or unhappy. The great news is that it doesn't have to be this way!  It's debilitating and there's no excuse for it, yet I see this phenomenon every day. It results from an unbalanced life, one with too much expectation and not enough appreciation for what they have.

Without love, gratitude and appreciation for what you already have, you’ll never know true fulfilment. But how do you cultivate this balance in your life? What’s the point of living if...

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