Did your ex make you feel beautiful? Or did he make you feel unattractive?

Some women can only see themselves as beautiful when they have makeup on. Some when they do their morning yoga coupled with that not-so-delicious-but-absolutely-necessary detox shake. While others still only feel it through the eyes of a lover.

Sadly, some women, and maybe you’re one of them, DO NOT FEEL BEAUTIFUL AT ALL - no matter what they do, and no matter who tells them that they are.

It can be easy to feel unattractive because of your age, weight gain, or any number of things, especially after struggling with divorce. But one thing you might fail to realize is that there is ONLY ONE PERSON that can make you feel ugly or beautiful! And I’m sure you know that.

The decision to look at yourself, feel beautiful, be beautiful, stay beautiful is all up to you.

I knew my worth, and yet I always felt that I wasn’t attractive, even when others told me I was. That only changed when I started to learn about mindset, human psychology, and did some deep work to redesign the way I saw myself.

I felt stronger, more beautiful, and more able to take on any challenges that life threw at me.

But when my husband left, I was hurt, and doubts started to creep in... I told myself that I did not want to be eaten by self-doubt so I went back to what I’d learned previously and dug even deeper into what thoughts, emotions, and beliefs were coming up for me through the divorce It wasn’t an easy decision but I made the decision not to stay stuck and to keep working on improving myself even though at times I felt like I was falling apart. I reinforced my learning and rebuilt my identity and self-belief, took control of my emotions, and now I feel even stronger and more beautiful than I did before.

I want that for you.

I know that you know that feeling beautiful is not rooted in our genetic makeup, or in what clothes we wear, or what brand of makeup we put on. It has nothing to do with morning routines or diet. These are all external factors that may contribute to our well-being, but real beauty and confidence is something that flourishes inside all of us if we learn how to harness it.

Make the decision and claim it! I’m not saying that it will be easy, but it is possible. If you’re ready to feel beautiful and confident and to be truly happy in your own skin, then reset your views about yourself.

Don’t let your ex or what happened to you stop you from feeling and looking beautiful.

I want you to be your best shining self!

No one can decide for you, and no one can do it for you. Your journey to start seeing your own beauty begins with you.

If you are looking for a way to restart your life again, if you need support, and if you want to be guided by people who care, click here and watch our FREE TRAINING and find out how a determined handful of smart women are finding love and happiness after divorce.

 

Lots of Love,

Fiona May